Day Off Dad

Growing up this was a term used for my dad. He'd have days off during the week because he worked retail and I loved when he was home, it always meant good times. I remember lots of grocery runs with Necco's or some kind of treat at the end of the day.

Now, day off dad applies to Michael in our home and these days are classic...what Maggie wears, where they go, what they do. I'm sure Maggie had something to do with the shoes and they did their weekly father/daughter visit to Home Depot.

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Haven't sat down in awhile to post, but I've had a lot on my mind...

1) I've been spending some really good quality time with my family and trying to keep my schedule in check. Sleeping as much as I can since Maggie waking up at 4 am the past few weeks has made me a little more tired than usual.

2) I'm starting a few knitting projects and am looking forward to getting together with friends this weekend to re-create a retreat that we all once attended pre-kids :-) Now, mind-boggingly, between the 3 of us we have 5 kids in the matter of 3 years.

3) Cooking lots, trying new recipes. Will post about my new favorite cookie recipe soon.

4) Won a blog contest from one of my favorite bloggers! She is an inspiration to me and scrapbooks a lot (among so many other things). I've done a little scrapbooking, around the time of my wedding, but hopefully this will inspire me to do more or use the materials in a creative way.

5) Wanting to enter more contests/giveaways. Entered one a few weeks ago and have one ready to enter. I have a thing for these (and game shows where I can watch people win). Winning always helps motivate me!

6) Wanting to plan my 2011 vacation (or weekend getaway) to start, but not sure where that will be yet.

7) Entering a busy birthday season. 6 family members within weeks of eachother, all local, and friends to boot. Gonna be busy and in the middle of it I'm throwing Maggie a birthday party.

8) Tasted really good vegan Indian food. Didn't know it existed until last night. I'm always inspired by my sister, taking so many fun things away from the times I spend with her. What always suprises me is that she doesn't see how awesome she is!

9) Need to get out in my garden and do some tidying up and prepping for spring.

10) 3 craft goals that I want to accomplish this year: finish painting and hang my belly cast for Maggie; take a quilting class, and try embroidery.

Winter food

The dairy-free diet is working well for Maggie so we're cooking without most dairy these days (when I say most, I mean cow's milk products except for butter in moderation). I was told she could probably handle butter and it's been fine. I'm learning about cooking with alternative ingredients as well as trying simple alternatives for snacks, etc. Maggie can tolerate goat milk products so she drinks the milk and eats the cheese. With all this, I've had some interesting conversations and gotten great ideas from friends that have eliminated one thing or another from their diet.

                                Our helper in the kitchen






Dishes I've made recently include:
1. coconut rice pudding (brown rice, coconut milk, and vanilla) - was ok but not awesome. I'd use white rice next time and maybe spice it up a little.
2. vegetarian bean chili with tofutti sour cream (used up canned ingredients in the cupboard including tomatoes, diced green chili's, 3 types of beans, jarred roasted red bell pepper, dried shitake mushrooms, onion, and frozen corn) - turned out nice and light
3. slow cooker whole bean soup (very simple-just dry Mayocoba beans, beef broth, water, and salt - set to simmer all afternoon) - always a good filler. Michael's family calls these "soupy" beans I think.
4. slow cooker pulled pork (boneless pork shoulder, homemade bbq sauce, pulled pork spice packet) - super yummy and lots of leftovers.
5. roasted winter root vegetables (red potatoes, yukon gold potatoes, shallots, garlic, parsnips, extra virgin olive oil) - really liked this combination.
6. turkey tacos with tofutti sour cream - always an easy favorite (we sometimes substitute crumbled tofu or fish instead of turkey).

Leave me a comment if you want a full recipe.

Recipes to try:
1. Chicken curry made with coconut milk
2. Slow cooker pot roast
3. Shrimp scampi
4. Muffins using canned pumpkin and/or applesauce (would love to serve these as "cupcakes" with some kind of dairy-free frosting for Maggie's birthday in March)
5. Goat cheese pizza

Hope this inspires!

Moments

We've caught Maggie on camera during some really fun moments lately and we've been laughing a lot at how goofy she is and the things she says and does. This is a really fun age, just shy of 2 years old. I really never knew how fun it is to be around a little one day in, day out. I'm lovin' this girl. 

 

Maggie pre-bike ride rockin' the glasses with her helmet and baby Maxi by her side







Showing off her new handmade apron (I was gifted a matching one!) and new watermelon hat (that goes with a watermelon bathing suit) to grandparents over for dinner

Smothering the cat before bed wearing her kitty pajamas

Sun!

Today feels pretty good. Lately, it's been dreary with the socked-in foggy/cold weather and it's been getting depressing. I was starting to dream about spring and all the fun stuff we could start doing in a couple months. Friends are talking about starting their gardens and I have to remember that it's only January! Good time to do some digging and fertilizing before spring planting though.

I woke up this morning after a really fun night out dancing with old and new friends. Good, goofy memories and have I said how much I love dancing? I especially love dancing with my friend Jessie, she is a blast to hang with. So much confidence, such a kind heart. To wake up a little later than usual, have breakfast made for me, and things going generally well started off the day right. To fully clear my head from the night before we set off on an awesome trail ride, Maggie in the trailer. It was perfect. Michael spotted a bobcat just off the trail and our destination was the last cycle-cross event of the season where friends were riding. It was good to see so many people out exercising, staying healthy, and kids playing in the dirt laughing.

We've joined a bike team this year and are excited to get involved. Our first club ride is in April and Michael is doing his first mountain bike race with the team tomorrow. I'm feeling pleased with the slight changes I've made in my life over the past few months. I feel like I'm growing into a new phase of my life and I'm excited to see what the next year holds for us.

Cute pic of Maggie last week - she desperately needed to play and run despite the cold weather! That's one of her favorite binky's that her Tia Boo-boo got her before she was born :-) Ha ha

Humbled Domestic Artist

Started reading my new book The Gentle Art of Domesticity: Stitching, Baking, Nature, Art & The Comforts of Home. Very good read, I feel inspired and would recommend this book to all my creative friends and family. The author writes in such a way to where I totally relate. I understand how she feels about being a modern women with domestic aspirations. She's a wife and mother and I feel grateful to read her thoughts about being creative while being a parent, especially because I'm in a stage where all of my creativity is going into my family, not into myself, and she writes about this happenening to her. Thank you to my mother in law who asked me before Christmas what I wanted. This is a book I've been eyeing for awhile but not something I could justify buying just for fun.

Ok, I can't believe I'm writing this but when I voiced this to friends last week and rehashed it with Michael (to reiterate that I was so sorry), now I want to share it here not only for a good laugh but so I can learn from my mistakes. Learning from my mistakes - added to my short list of 2011 New Year's resolutions.

Hubby and I decided to do only stockings as gifts to eachother this year. Throughout December, I would be shopping and pick up something fun and small for myself and tell Michael it was for my stocking (thinking this would help him along). Stockings have always been a big deal to me as my mom made them special each year for my sister and I growing up and she stuffed ours full with fun personalized gifts. I expected Michael to pick up where she left off once we started spending the holidays together but it's taken a few years to get there :-)

On Christmas Eve I stuffed Maggie and Michael's stockings and laid them near the fireplace. I went to bed and Michael stayed up. The next morning I made my way to the fireplace with tunnel vision. I was shocked to see only the two stockings I'd laid out the night before and no other. I also saw the three gifts I'd bought for myself still sitting on the table untouched. I felt heartbroken in the moment. I made up that Michael hadn't filled my stocking yet and that he missed the point after I had stressed how important this was to me. In a quick fit of anger, I picked up my gifts and threw them on the floor, the candy cane shattering. I said some words in anger, all the while Michael is standing behind me witnessing this. It's quiet for a moment and then he calmly tells me "Marin, your stocking is under the Christmas tree." I haven't felt like such a fool in a long time. I composed myself and went to the Christmas tree where Maggie and Michael were. Michael was the best husband I could have asked for in that moment. Turns out, my stocking was full of the best goodies - so heartfelt and personalized, it made me want to cry.

Michael is so patient with me. Lord only knows what he was thinking when I threw the fit (actually, he did mention later that his thought was to go on a bike ride when it happened :-) I am very thankful that he doesn't take me too seriously and that he is supportive and thoughtful throughout our marriage. It has been everything I have needed to counterbalance my personality and traits. I couldn't have asked for a better match in this lifetime.